Irritated

So I was going to wait to post another one of these until later tonight, however I'm a little floored right now... My 3 year old Nephew (Danny's son) just came over to spend the weekend here with his Dad and with us... as I'm talking to him after hugs and juice... and as I'm taking black nail polish off of his fingernails (per his Dad's request) he tells me "My Mommy says you're bad." WOW! I knew she still blames me for her breakup with Danny (which btw was ALL his doing thankyou) because we had to move in here... But WOW! So now I'm sitting here floored... absolutly floored! If I were in Danny's shoes I'd want the parent to know, so I took a break and talked to Danny.. outside, away from ears... and I'm thinking to myself if this kid really felt this way why the hugs... why the "I missed you" ... Hmmm so Danny came in and talked to him and this wonderful, sweet 3 year old says "I didn't say that Mommy did," lol I just had to laugh to myself... I'm a good person with faults; his mother and I have known eachother 17+ years and this is not the first time something like this has happened between us... she hsa always blamed me for something or another and that's alright... because I know this WAS NOT my fault. So in the meantime the 2 boys are playing, having a good time and Jesse and I are cleaning things up around here for another couple of hours until it's off to do some running around with the kiddos and guitar lessons for Dakota. I guess this really just floored me because up until now I thought (and I know better) that she was doing really well keeping her opinons away from her kids. Does she not understand that our 2 boys are joined at the hip? It's two peas in a pod, just 18 months apart. Does she think it's ok to bad mouth me in front of her kids yet ok for Jesse and I to watch her kids? How fair is that? It's not, but we enjoy our time with him and miss the other two girls so much it hurts... 17 years of friendship does not discenigrate with a fall out of any sort. On another note (gave that WAY too much attention) I think we are going to the fair tonight if we can swing it... it may be too hot and we may try to go when Danny is with us. It would be fun to go and just see what is there. My sister in-law entered some photographs she has taken and I would love to see them. we shall see if we can make the fincial arrangements to go. I'm looking at everything we have to do by the end of the month and what June is going to provide... June is SO busy! We have a graduation of Jesse's cousin Betsy on the 10th, Danny's birthday on the 20th and of course Eclipse on the 30th! Busy busy month but well worth it! next month is also Dakota's last month of school and I am so looking forward to that... a few weeks at the ranch with his Nanna will be good for him I think; although, Micah will miss him so much! O.K. off to finish my daily chores and then some before I run out of time. Dinner is already in the crockpot and the kitchen is done... laundry is started and the front bathroom is next... oops look at the time I think lunch should be started first! May God be your guide today and may you always follow whatever it is he places in your heart!