If others negativity affects you and there isn't much you can do about it, then how do you get past it? Well I'm not quite sure about this as of yet, but I do know a change is coming and if I have learned anything, it is that God will not give us more than we can handle. Change is everywhere at all times and all we have to do is choose to look at it in a positive light and it will change us for the better. Sometimes is does not always seem like a positive change, and sometimes it is not received well, however it can and will be received. The trick is to pray, pray for guidance and strength and things will have a good outlook. Change is not easy by any means, this I know for a fact. I do know, however that change is necessary in life. Patience is also necessary and this is a virtue that I do not have much of when it comes to stupidity and lack of common sense within people. I have a well of Patience with my children and my husband, but it is something I have a hard time working on with others. So a continual prayer for guidance and Patience is necessary for me. If you are going through a change this year remember to pray for guidance and patience. It does work and God is changing your life, just remember that.